As a sharp guy, I always tell her it’s work stress (truth is I’m a workaholic). For the first months into our marriage, she believed me. But it didn’t last long. So she got tired, and insisted we go hunting for solutions.

We visited a good number of clinics. No result.

I got some local agbo/concortions. No result.

Amidst this period, there was no joy in my marriage. It’s like a 50-50 kinda stuff — happy couple during the day, sad couple at night. It was that sad.

Now here’s something you should know about SEX.

There is no set time when a man should ejaculate during sex.

But it’s probably too soon if you have an orgasm before intercourse or less than a minute after you start.

Why is this a problem?

Because when you ejaculate, you lose your erection and can’t continue having sex.

Your wife will feel there’s not enough time to enjoy it. And she’ll frown at you for it because she’ll be seriously craving you. Mind you, you’ve reached orgasm. She hasn’t.

See…

…Sex is the sweetest thing. And women enjoy it the most (arguable though). 

And there’s something magical and mysterious about the female orgasm — They feel a bit like the nice scratchy tickling feeling when someone strokes the inside of your arm, only way more intense. At orgasm, she forgets every shite for a moment and feels good all through the body…for that day.

And so, every lady wants to get to that point. 

But… Don’t blame yourself yet…It’s difficult to drive her to reach climax.

Here’s why: the average time a man can go is 7-10 minutes. But for women, it’s about 30-60 minutes. So the loophole is wide.

What’s worse for you is if you can’t last for 5 minutes.

And this can be caused by Premature Ejaculation or Erectile dysfunction(Weak erection)

However, when this happens, you may feel you’ve lost some of the closeness shared with your wife.

You may feel angry (especially at night). Ashamed. Upset. And be turned away from your partner.

Here is the SAD thing about Premature ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction:

It Doesn’t Only Affect You.

It affects your partner(wife) even the more. Your wife may be upset with the change in sexual intimacy. She’ll be hurt. And your connection with her would loosen.

But that’s not all…

…what will hurt you even the most is, chances of your wife being serviced by smaller boys is high(worst by your close neighbour or bestfriend).

Truth is, no lady would be faithful to a 1-minute man. She may try but not for long.

See…

…there are a thousand and one reason why you are experiencing this. Some of which are: depression, stress, guilt, unrealistic expectations about sexual performance, history of sexual repression, overall lack of confidence, relationship problems etc

Sadly the exact reason is always not known(not even by the medical expert).

That is why most pills(like viagra) help you on a temporary basis…and may have huge side effects on you

Now… let me ask you this:

Do you want to continue having the guilt(infact, embarrassment) of not being “ABLE AND CAPABLE” to satisfy your woman? 

Do you have to wait until your woman starts smashing your neighbour, colleague (at work) or even your best friend? 

…just because you cannot do your job as a man?

I know your answers are NO…and I pray this doesn’t happen to you.